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Online dating as a bigger woman can be brutal. I've been called a "fatty” by men, or told that men would only have sex with me as a favor, because men could never be attracted to someone my size.Plus-Sized people are not insecure about their website, but when someone first got into online dating, she found herself obsessing over…

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Yep I’m Plus size woman! You heard me right! I said it. I. A.M. F.A.T.! What you gonna do about it?

We live in a world where fat is bad word. It’s used as an insult. We say it when we’re judging someone else. We say it when we’re judging ourselves. An opinion about what being fat really means. For me, since this is my article, fat is simply a descriptor of a person. I’ve been fat pretty much my whole life. I was plus size woman. But I played softball. I walked home from school. I rode my bike all over the neighborhood with my friends. I was fat. I knew it. But it didn’t stop me from being awesome!

dating bbw singlesWhy? Because I didn’t care that I was overweight! I was just me! I chase toddlers, walk miles and miles, and execute events that require hours of standing, walking, and lifting. I am strong. I am capable. I am beautiful and I am fat(overweight)! Every single one of them hated how fat they were. Why can’t you just love yourself the way you are? Why are we always attempting to change our appearance? Who are we trying to please?  I can’t seem to go below this size. I never have! And honestly I probably won’t. Why’s that? Because I’m fat! I’m just a plus size woman.

I can buy clothes that make me look beautiful. I can look at myself and feel good in what I choose to wear. I can present myself as someone who is confident, strong, and worthwhile. That’s on me.  Because I have given you the descriptors to use for me by who I told you I am.

If you go into any social situation being apologetic that the word fat is your descriptor, then they are going to describe you in this way! Because that is what society tells them to do. That is what you are telling them to believe of you! What you believe about yourself is who people will believe you are! I choose to surround myself with people who love BBW couple. I choose to project my beauty and strength. I choose to feel beautiful even if I don’t look the same as societies view of beauty. That’s on me! I Choose BBW couple! And that’s should be enough!

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Why I Support Big Beautiful Women Dating Site

A couple of years ago, I(a BBW) decided I'd never date anyone else who was interested in me "despite" or "regardless of" my body. After years of humans who — no matter how kind or clever or fun they were otherwise — always seemed to have the kind of superiority complex that told them that, deep down, they were doing me a favor by dating a big beautiful girl, I was over it.

fairy_tale_couple_by_garsedj-d38y9d0I've been in a relationship with my current partner for over four years. But if anything ever happened, I'd want to be with another someone who actually loves my body. But rather, someone who, like me, actually believes that fat can be beautiful and sexy and fuckable.
In an ideal world — one where equality was actualized and the notion of body shaming antiquated — we wouldn't need the new plus size dating site. We would need an site for plus size singles and admirers to find their matches, as noted on the site's landing page, or for "big beautiful women (BBW), big handsome men (BHM), fat admirers, plus size women and their admirers”, because the notion that fat bodies are as desirable as any other body type, in that some people find them desirable and some don't.
If they like the woman first, they don’t notice her size, they just notice her.

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Be Overweight And Healthy

Yes, you can be overweight and healthy, according to the National Institutes of Health’s 1998 report, Clinical Guidelines on the Identification, Evaluation and Treatment of Overweight and Obesity in Adults.

People who are overweight can be considered healthy if their waist size is less than 35 inches for women or 40 inches for men.

The benefits of exercise go far beyond burning calories. Being physically active helps prevent heart diseasFat-Girl-Flowe, type 2 diabetes, depression, some forms of cancer, and osteoporosis. It can also improve your mood, enhance self-esteem, reduce anxiety, and help manage stress. And improving your fitness level usually results in increased muscle mass, which means your body burns more calories all the time.


As we all know, health is not only about physical health, but also about mental health. Keep your mind free, be confident, make friends, if you don’t like go out. you can stay at home according to your PC find some friends and online dating, some dating sites are mainly deigned for BBW/BHM. such as BBW couple, Large friends, BBW meet and so on.

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Fat people are not the cause of our broken healthcare system

Notes from a Big Beautiful Woman” — thrilled a sold-out crowd of 1,200 at Town Hall here in her hometown on Wednesday night. Her sharp wit and kind soul both shone as she talked about her path from feeling broken and wrong in her body to becoming a vociferous (and hilarious) defender of women’s bodies,plus size bodies and every body’s right to be respected and accepted.

After Lindy and I talked recently, the column I wrote about her and her crusade got a number of responses like this one, from a post on The 155461_LW_LINDYWEST_05-1020x709Seattle Times’ Facebook: “This is why universal health care mandates suck, because a lot people  choose to be unhealthy and its no one else responsibility to pay for it.

Healthcare is brought up over and over again in this context. Lindy already addressed this canard, though not directly, in last week’s column — instead of shaming and devaluing people, she would suggest: “Why don’t you just campaign for healthier school lunches? Why don’t you campaign for longer recess? Why don’t we raise the minimum wage so that moms — or dads — don’t have to work three jobs, and they can be home and cook food for their families? Instead … we stigmatize them and call them stupid and obesity for feeding McDonald’s to their kids. The whole system is broken, and the only solution people can come up with is to punish the people victimized by that system.”

I emailed Lindy for more specifics on the fat-people-and-healthcare “issue.” She sent a characteristically eloquent mini-essay:

Why don’t we complain about old people, who are the biggest drain? If big beautiful singles have shorter lifespans, we’re doing our bit for the economy, dammit.

I reject the premise on the grounds that I’m in favor of universal healthcare, because I believe that should be considered a right and not a privilege. I believe we should all be pitching in so that people who need medical attention can get it, end of story. Picking and choosing who ‘deserves’ it, as opposed to who should literally have to pay for their perceived sins, is inhumane bullshit, as far as I’m concerned. Fat people are not the cause of our broken healthcare system — they are victims of it, just like everyone else.”

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10 Strategic Steps to Finding Love


BBW online dating is no longer a numbers game. It’s a strategy. A no-games, smart, efficient, and effective pre-qualifying strategy that includes profile mapping, photo analyzing, and asking specific questions in order to elicit substantive responses.

To improve your big beautiful women dating success. Follow these 10 strategic steps to find love online:
mostly, find a good dating site, such as BBW couple(BBW dating site).
It is important to find who has same interests or hobbies.
1. What Are You Looking For On BBW Dating Site?

You want to reveal something about yourself that comes from your core values, your essence, who you really are. If you have something funny about yourself, share that.
2. Write Your Profile Towards That Purpose

An authentic profile is an invitation to attract certain bbw- the ones you share things in common with, while simultaneously filtering through the wrong matches.
3. Narrow the Playing Field!

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Maybe it’s something that makes them feel like they get you, and definitely something that they can personally relate to.
4. Match Their Purpose With Yours

As you know chances are high that it simply won’t be a fit from the get go, as the both of you are looking for different things.
5. Profile Mapping

NOTICE that I didn't mention “looks." Although extremely tough, you should try and look at the photos LAST. When it comes to lasting love, do looks really rate higher than core values?
6. What Do Their Photos Describe?

Their photos can reveal a lot on who they are, what their lives look like, and help you determine if you are more interested or less.
7. Are You Attracted?
8. Start Communicating

If they sent the first message- great! If not, send them a short message (not a wink or instant message), referencing something from their profile that you relate to.
9. Avoid Fraud – Do Your Research

Don’t worry too much, most big beautiful women dating site have great security that provide a safe dating experience overall.
10. Initiate a Call

This call should truly be like a date- set a time, then talk for as long as you feel right. Be real and revealing and learn about your dynamics. If, by the end of the call you’re STILL interested, set a date!

 

 

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